A: There are multiple factors involved in why SFA occurs on Friday & Wednesday evenings in this extended program format. Here are #2: 

1st -Parts of your nervous system will naturally be less engaged, having been your primary parts of engagement during your work week. Our society highly values your mental faculties, however if upgrading to the most beautiful life were as easy as using this aspect, well then we would have read the book about it, and in doing so, it would already be happening. 

2nd -While your mind takes a break, many of the other aspects will get to engage more fully, in new ways, and initiate (vs come in passively afterwards). You will be primed for our SFA time in one of the juiciest places of potential activation. This will actually help your system to ‘get it’ and apply newly developed strategies for change. Remember we are creating an incredible space for your nervous system to interface, add on to what you’ve ‘got’, and to create new pathways. It may seem counterintuitive, but roll with us and you’ll see the benefit of accessing you in one of the most sought after states. 

3rd – This is SFA – of course we are going to do it NEW, WEIRD, and RADICAL ~ that’s what you’re here for, right!?!

A: Missing sessions are NOT RECOMMENDED. You will see the dates and times of our sessions are available to you further up on this page. Please do your best to clear your schedule, so you can join the community! 

*A note on coming as you are: Sometimes we are in a great mood, other times not… This is life, right? Your facilitators are focused on your evolution, our collective growth, and supporting your system to engage. This can be comfortable, new, uncomfortable, and challenging to strategies that are hard-won to keep you in the illusion of safety. When we fight to show up perfectly, your systems are skirting around change, and aiming for surviving the moment. Can you relate? Strategies like this were likely incredible when they were initiated and probably kept us safe when we couldn’t do anything else. In the SFA community, together we co-create inherent safety, so that all of your parts (and mine) get to come upgrade with all of our parts! This happens more efficiently in our collective! 

You are an important part of the community. Please arrive on time!

A: The SFA program is the most comprehensive Relational Living course currently available supporting to fully be your most fabulous self, living your most empowered life.

What you’re getting: In-person and live opportunities! Participating in this way with your facilitators opens doors!

You get to do SFA in community primarily because you get more out of participating with each other – your nervous system takes in, integrates & digests and then applies with many strategies, -and we intend to hit them all! 

Past SFA participants shared that they really learned a lot from each other in the program. This is value added to the already potent program content! This is profound stuff! We have been told that we over deliver and that it was not possible to put a price on what participants got from the material, experiences and community. Doing this in community handles some of the costs to facilitate plus helps you in in numerous ways. *More on the program investment in the application process! 

You will also have access to your SFA journal and carefully curated supplemental materials that add to the experience for you. 

A: There are no prerequisite courses to have completed prior to signing up for SFA. You are encouraged to come as you are. The application process is designed to help you sort through if this is the time and place for you to get the most from participating in this powerful program.

A: Your facilitators start crafting and tailoring the program for you and your goals and needs. The short answer is there will be no refunds for this program once it begins. You are in the company of exquisite facilitators who are here to co-create a community of those intending to upgrade their lives and Stop F*@king Around. We will do our best to support you. 

A: The short answer is that developing more specificity and efficiency within your nervous system, intimacy within ourselves and community are created and established over time. How do you eat an elephant? -This program is meant to be digestible! This is counter culture – to do things with consistency, so that we create a community that can support us as we delve, develop, inquire and evolve our landscape of relating. It is worth it – you are worth it!

A: The SFA program is a road map, and each month gorgeously builds on the next. Participating in the program does not qualify you to be you – already have that permission in spades! You won’t receive a certificate or a degree, or even a pat on the back. What you will get is stretched; you’ll gain skills, you’ll develop new ways of being and doing relationships, and life. You are opting in to developing more range in your foundations ~ and for life to be more purposeful and to engage more as you center relationality. The design is not to limit what parts of you or your life experience this, but to support this to extend and expand through you and your community… the world needs this – and you! Are you in!?